Why is it that some people don’t get harassed and bullied – but others in the same organization seem to be victimized repeatedly?  While there are many factors, some of it may be in the way they present themselves.

This course is designed for those who want to learn skills and techniques that will get them more respect in the workplace – and elsewhere.

Years ago I was having an introductory meeting with a government agency that had hired me to conduct prevention of sexual harassment and discrimination training.  In that introductory meeting a group of women lawyers stopped my presentation and forcefully stated:  “We can take care of ourselves, we don’t need training.”  They were correct – they didn’t need the training. But in the back corner of the room several women stage-whispered “Yes, we do.”   These women were not high-powered attorneys but were support staff.

So some of us have mastered wearing a psychological suit of armor – others have not.

It’s not just women who get harassed and bullied.  It is also those men and boys who appear to be more vulnerable, or slightly different from the others. This course covers behaviors and styles that can be useful to all who want and need to be heard.

Learning Objectives
  • Explore behaviors that work and those that don’t
  • Discover new behaviors that make you appear more powerful
  • Recognize when to avoid situations (like dark alleys)
  • Help you Identify your own new style
Last updated/reviewed: August 19, 2023
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5
Anonymous Author
Great course. I found it to be very effective in learning leadership qualities. Also had great examples of real life experiences. would recommend to all not just people leaders.

5
Anonymous Author
This course was very enjoyable and entertaining. It put in perspective how we do have choices and should stand up for ourselves

4
Anonymous Author
Enjoyed all the war stories about dealing with and handling the various situations discussed.

5
Anonymous Author
Very straight forward which is very helpful leaves you with a clear view of what to do.

5
Anonymous Author
Good examples and great advice. Liked this one a lot

Prerequisites
Course Complexity: Intermediate

No advanced preparation or prerequisites are required for this course.

Education Provider Information
Company: Illumeo, Inc., 75 East Santa Clara St., Suite 1215, San Jose, CA 95113
Contact: For more information regarding this course, including complaint and cancellation policies, please contact our offices at (408) 400- 3993 or send an e-mail to .
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Course Syllabus
INTRODUCTION AND OVERVIEW
  Introduction to Say No and Have it Honored (Don’t be a Victim)1:33
  Just Say No11:08
  Guilt Trips4:18
  Don't Walk Down Dark Alleys8:20
  Your Attitude4:01
  Your Image6:20
  Your Own New Style5:57
  No Means No & Conclusion3:34
CONTINUOUS PLAY
  Say No and Have it Honored (Don’t be a Victim) 45:15
SUPPORTING MATERIALS
  Slides: Say No and Have it Honored (Don’t be a Victim)PDF
  Say No and Have it Honored (Don’t be a Victim) Glossary/IndexPDF
REVIEW AND TEST
  REVIEW QUESTIONSquiz
 FINAL EXAMexam